Your first tantric experience: before, during and after

Before

Book with room to spare. Do not book a 90 minutes session in a two-hour gap between meetings. If the diary is chasing you, you will notice it in your body and the session will be worth less. Ideally, afterwards you have nothing that cannot wait.

Use the prior conversation. When the appointment is confirmed we talk about preferences and limits. That is the moment to say what you are looking for, what makes you hesitant and what you do not want under any circumstances. There are no strange answers: the clearer you arrive, the calmer the session. If you do not know what to say, "it is my first time" is enough.

On the day. Eat lightly, arrive with a few minutes to spare and put your phone on silent before coming in. There is a private shower at the studio, so you do not need to arrive ready from home.

During

The first thing I tell anyone coming for the first time is that there is nothing to do right. There is no correct way to receive a tantric massage and no goal to meet. Only two things help: breathing calmly and attending to what you feel at each moment, without running ahead to what comes next.

The second is that you can speak. If something is not to your liking, if you want more pressure or less, if you need to stop for a moment, it is said and it is changed. Silence is pleasant, but it is not compulsory.

And the third, which sometimes surprises people: the time is yours. The session lasts what you booked, from beginning to end, with no cuts. If at some point you catch yourself counting minutes, go back to the breath.

After

At the end there is time for the shower and to come back slowly. Do not get up suddenly or rush out to look at your phone. If you can, walk for a while before taking the car or the metro, and drink water.

It is normal to feel slower for a few hours. It is also normal not to feel anything special and to realise the next day that you have slept better. Every body responds in its own way, and at Noir Tantra no specific response is promised.

Which experience to choose the first time

If you arrive without references, Signature Tantra: it is the signature experience and the one that sums up the house in 90 minutes. If you already know you want time, Noir Privé. And if breathing and body attention are your thing, ask me about Bio Tantra Experience; I explain the specific practices before you book.

Reviewed on 22 October 2026.